[Tammyh]

I would just get them another gift off of the bridal registry. I know things are different between west coast/east coast and also with different cultures but I've always just given a gift off of the registry unless I found something else that I thought they would like better. I've never given money, it never crossed my mind. I certainly wouldn't expect a guest to give a certain dollar amount to cover the cost of the wedding, that would be my responsibility not my guests.