[BrunoReggiemom]

What is an appropriate gift for a coworkers wedding for me and my boyfriend as my guest?

I know the conventional wisdom is to cover your plate but I disagree for two reasons:
1. the bride did not pay for a thing - the parents did so you are nto really taking away from money they put out
2. it really isnt my fault that they paid $150-175 for my plate.. i really cant afford that

i am usually invited to close friends weddings and give $250- - 300 but this is because it is a very close friend or family member and i never go by how fancy the wedding is - usually by how close i am to the bridge/groom.. this is a friendly coworker and i am really clueless right about now

anyone have some suggestions