Thank you so much.

My problem is that I try too hard to make everything perfect. My sweet heart

just goes with the flow of life. The things that make them happy...makes them happy. I guess I need to realize that it is okay for the both of us to be happy with different things and that me & "my boys" are not loved any less.
You all just may have opened my eyes to something: Just because I am the only one that talks to "the boys" like they are my kids and I get excited when I pass a PetSmart or Petco or find the latest toy, collars, leashes, bones, clothes, sunglasses

, beds, etc. doesn't mean that WE are any less compatible with each other.
We already have at least 85% of our lives in common. I guess I just wanted for "my children" to be close to the both of us. But maybe my dreams of that are just unrealistic...and that is okay too!
I guess sometimes you just need to get other perspectives. And who has a better perspective on the love of Yorkies then the great members of YT!