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Originally Posted by bchgirl  Personally when she suggested she wanted to co host a joint shower...I would've told her no and if necessary given her the reasons you stated. This is something you wanted to do for your friend.
Since it's past that point...I'd call her up and tell her you'd decided to still have a seperate shower. Or you could participate in the joint shower but hold another with a different list of guests. I had seperate showers...some were my co workers, my friends, or just family.
In short...if you want to throw a seperate shower...then do it. |
Hubby says the same thing. As a small community, we have done many things together (it's good thing but sometimes it's not). All that I wanted to do was celebrate each mom and have each mom have her own special memories.
When we my friend and I co-hosted my immediate neighbors shower, I took all the pictures and then made up picture cds for the 3 of us so we could have the memories. My friend and I spent a bit of money and time on the shower since it was the first child born in our neighborhood. That's what gets me is that it seems I am the only one thinking of the moms and not what is more conveniet for the attendees.