Personally when she suggested she wanted to co host a joint shower...I would've told her no and if necessary given her the reasons you stated. This is something you wanted to do for your friend.
Since it's past that point...I'd call her up and tell her you'd decided to still have a seperate shower. Or you could participate in the joint shower but hold another with a different list of guests. I had seperate showers...some were my co workers, my friends, or just family.
In short...if you want to throw a seperate shower...then do it.
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