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Originally Posted by MeganS  ^Thank you. 
I've been trying so hard not to let her know that she gets to me. I've been her neighbor for 6 months and she has only even spoken to me once. She dissed me last week. I sprained my knee (pretty badly) about 2 weeks ago, and I use crutches at school. at home i don't use them because they're not necessary. I was out in the backyard with Tucker without crutches. Apperantly she was watching me, because I was talking to my friend at school the next day (and I was on my crutches) and she was like "I saw you running around your backyard without those yesterday." I explained to her that I wasn't running around, I was picking up the dog's ball, and that I don't use them at home because they aren't necessary at home. That's ALL she's said to me in 6 months.
We go way back. I thought I was finally done with her and then I moved in behind her and I almost died. I figured move on, get over it, right? Well every time she sees me she makes a really obnoxious like "ugh!" sound. She thinks she's all that cause she has a service dog. Whatever.
I've even prayed about it, but that doesn't seem to be doing anything either. I'm soo past the point of not letting her get under my skin. One day I'm just going to snap or something...and scream at her until I'm blue in the face. But I don't want it to come to that. I just want her to grow up and get over it. I've never been anything but nice to her. Except for ONE time when I stood up for myself (the whole thing between us was 4 years ago. yeah). and that time she DESERVED it like you wouldn't believe. Other than that, I've never said anything mean to her. |
OMG, I feel so bad for you!! All the good advice in the world doesn't seem to help when you're right smack in the middle of it. What are the odds that you would move in right behind her!?! Apparently there's a reason (and all that
) but I'll bet it's tough in the day to day. Do you have a privacy fence (because fences do make the best neighbors)? Or is that not even an option? The lack of privacy is the worst part of it. It makes it impossible to ignore the situation. But all the good advice is still good. But in the meantime, I will just pray for your neighbor to grow up and for you to catch a break. ~hugs~