Chachi's Dad, I know the feeling. When we first got Yoda, I got no attention, I mean literally for weeks and months. You could say I was a bit jealous of the little guy, cute as he was! But I learned to love him and he loved me back, and it was all good. One thing you can do is play with Chachi for a long period of time, to wear Chachi out. When Chachi FINALLY gets tired and needs to nap, you will have some alone time with your wife, hopefully! Also, you can try to form a bond with Chachi yourself, and you'll get addicted to Yorkies like I did. I can't say it's easy at first, but there are lots of "Yorkie husbands" out there that started out just like you did. Good luck!