I was talking to my bf last night, just laying on the bed and my boys were walking all over us, playing, being petted etc... and he started talking about his kids. He has skin kids 11 & 14 yo boys. I said to him "its so weird to me sometimes that when Im with you and you dont have the kids, you are just like me, but when you have them you are 'DAD'." I am 31, but still feel TOO young to have kids, and my bf is 39 and has a teenager! So he says to me "Well everytime I see you, you are a mom, you are always mommy to your 2 boys and they are with you almost 24/7!" I was like 'awwwwwww..." cuz I AM mommy to my boys! I discipline them and they depend on me, like he does with his skin kids. Im just so grateful to have found a guy who understands that my boys ARE my kids and he loves them and takes care of them just as well I do!