Your frustration is SO understandable!! But I promise you...as a Yorkie Mom that waited a LONG time for the right baby.....if you do your homework (as you are by asking these questions) and give it a lil bit of time...you will find the perfect baby! I would suggest to check out the breeder talk forums and get to know the veterans on here. Believe me, they care every bit as much as you do about finding the right pup for you! I wish you the best of luck and I definitely feel for you and your frustrations!! I know you want to find someone trustworthy, and find em now.....but if you take the time to make the right choice, we can all promise you that you will NEVER regret it!! Good luck Amy