I have 2 Sister-in-laws that work for the school system and I HAVE "NEVER" SEEN SO MUCH GOSSIPING IN ALL MY LIFE!!!!!! It is hard because one is married to my brother and I am removed from the family quite a bit do to some family disrespect issues and the other is married to my husbands brother and "TRIES" to not bring up family matters at work, Yeah Right! Oh And THEN throw in the mix my A HOLE brother is the school liason officer and works with both of them and is the reason for my removal of the family (my decision), who w/out my husbands dragging him to the State Capitol for a Govenors Pardon for a battery on his record for a young, dumb bar fight would not have been looked at by any police department let alone the one he AND my husband work for, AND if that isn't enough it was NEVER brought up that our city has a nepatisim (sp?) policy and my husband can never become a LT., Srgt., etc. because he cannot over see a family member...So from one who understands gossip and down right cruelty, do what makes you happy...I just truly believe "What goes around, comes around" and those who have not been so nice to you will have their day...Good Luck, Keep us posted