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Originally Posted by cuzio23  I will keep everyone posted. She tends to not return my calls. That is another problem.... the only communication we have from time to time is via Myspace! Blah it sucks, but ok well. I will try again to get in touch with her, especially she her birthday is this month.... |
my friend was like that too....and what kicked our "talk" into full swing was an email that I sent to her that laid it out...I told her I figured she would probably not want to talk about the email...and that she would probably get all defensive and act like my email was never sent...but that I HAD to get it off my chest and let her know that if our friendship was going to continue...it was going to be because she put forth an effort because I was tired of giving 100% to the friendship all the time and not getting so much as a random phone call asking how I was doing or to tell me to go to H%##. well....she took all day to think about my email and then SHE made the initiative to talk to me. SHE has made a full turn around and has been putting forth total effort to make sure our friendship is strong. So even if you have to send her a myspace message letting all of your feelings out...I think you should do it. and if she chooses not to respond or to avoid it all together...then that is her loss and you will have your answers. on the flip side....she may surprise you...she may have a "wake up call" and realize that she is letting her best friend get hurt and "fix" it.
either way, I think it is a "win" situation.