My way of thinking is that there are 5 daughters, your parents take care of you most of your life but when they need you, as their child you step up and take care of them any way you can!
i agree, every one should pitch in and help as much as they can.
, I'm winding down now but I'm ready to send a letter or email to the other daughters about the stress that my mom is left to deal with all on her own.
im pretty forward so
I WOULD try and talk to them, let them know the situation and how your feeling about this and take it from there, because its too much stress for you and your mom
sorry about your grandmother