Oh ya know what? I am going through something similar but with my best friend. Shes been my best friend for about 17 years or so... we've been through EVERYTHING together... but in January she asked me to be one of her friends dates to their company party (they both worked in the same place) so I did. Ive known him for 7 years and it was comfortable for me and him. Anyways, we ended up really liking and enjoying each others company and now we've been dating for about 4 months and she is not happy about it at all.... she has been treating both of us differently and being all disinterested in the relationship, in my life, etc... so Ive been doing the same thing back. I don't want to fight with her, but I don't understand so I guess Im taking a step back from her like she is to me. Id rather resolve the issue, and should talk to her about it. I tried to a couple times, but nothing came of it, so yeah Im doing the same thing to her as she is to me... I guess I hope in time she'll get over whatever is wrong and come around!
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