Quote:
Originally Posted by Thorsmomma  rejected by someone you care about deeply, and in response maybe you want to reject them too? If that makes any sense. For instance (totally hypothetical  ) if you felt your bf wasn't spending enough time with you, then you might make yourself sparse so he can see what it's like. OMG I'm so immature. But seriously. |
I probably did that at one time in my life but don't remember....so many men so little time - KIDDING !!
I hope it doesn't backfire on you ....but yes - it makes sense. It's our way of putting up that little 'don't hurt me' barrier - does that make sense ???