We recently lost my m-i-l to emphaysemia (sp) she was 80. It is really difficult to see our parents as old and frail. My hubby and I were at odds all the time about her, she lived with us. I could accept it because I could stand back and look in wherea he was right in the middle-and he is an only child.
Have patience with your father, he is right in the middle and while you have known your mother all your life, he has known her longer. One of the hardest things to accept and acknowledge is that your loved one ill.
Hugs at a very difficult time. |