I have no idea, but I want want to echo what you've already been told. Get a good night's sleep. Everything will be clearer tomorrow and you'll be better able to think it all through. By that time, people with more experience will have had a chance to post.
Bless your heart! Hugs to you and Banjo.
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The fullness of our heart is expressed in our eyes, in our touch, in what we write, in what we say, in the way we walk, the way we receive, the way we need. -Mother Teresa (
RIP Gizmo 3/9/07-8/18/12)