Ok SO yes you can "choose" the sex of your child but Its VERY expensive and from what i hear can be painful and a long Drawn out procces what they Basically do is collect speciman from the Man then pick out females and then invitro ...Heres The Catch thou Its not 100% and I think they may even scraps the womans eggs to make sure it takes which is painfull plus all the horomones youd be on with that being said I personally think that the sex of a child is in gods hands but yes it can be "medically" done I have 2 Boys and REALLY want a lil girl Im personally going to adopt but not just for the reason that i want a girl we have other resaons but that will be sometime from now but her name is Going to Be Mattie (my dh is Matt) !!!