Get the equity out of the house. Ask your attorney about this. There is a way to do this, you just have to figure out which way is the best way. Dont say anything about divorce until you get your money out of that house. If it goes into a retirement account he cannot touch it until after 10 years of marriage. A hospital will not want a fully mortgaged house.
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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures  I wanted to post to you all..
I am just overwhelmed with the support here.
I have so many posts to respond to and PM that I cant read just yet.
I know that someway there has to be something I can do.
I am writing this on WordPad and copying and pasting it to the post so he dont catch me . He is still home and I cant afford another smashed computer
Usually he leaves a lot in the evenings when his friends or family come home to visit .. will read pms..and post more then,
((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))
I cant thank you all enough for the prayers and support |