Sorry all. I just got on here. I have been popping in and out checking on things but not for too long as I have been really busy.
Things with Ryan and I are going great. Ry and I, along with my dad, gramma, and kids all went to dinner the other night together and things went really well. My family loves him dearly. The other night I had a MAJOR panic moment and thought that maybe things were going to fast. At least that is what my head was saying. It was like 4am so of course I am not going to call my friends and wake them up to listen to me ramble, so instead I jumped on here and Nobella (Vainchick) really helped me through my panic moment. (Love her dearly for it too) I talked to Ry and we agreed that if one of us panics we will talk to the other, I didn't talk to him right away because I was worried that he wouldn't understand, but he did.
So as of right now, we are going full speed ahead and I am doing great with it. I have been helping him paint over at his house. Tonight was a boys night out so Ryan, my dad and my 2 sons all went to dinner and a movie together. They had a blast. The kids totally love him and want me to be with him forever. I have talked to the kids about moving in with him and they want to. The kids however dont live with me fulltime. They live with thier dad for the school year in southern colorado, so I felt that I should talk to them now since they leave to head back to thier dads in a week. They will be back for thanksgiving and xmas though. SO, we are doing alot of painting and stuff over at Ryans to get things ready for us to move. My gramma who lives with me will be moving there also. She will have her own "mothers quarters" I guess is what it is called. His house is huge almost 7000 sq ft and has like a 1200 sq ft, apartment type add of to the house with everything that some one would need so that is where my gramma is going to live. Ryan is going to set something up so that if something happens we have intercom everywhere in the house. Gramma is happier about moving there than she was about coming here cause there she is going to have her privacy where as here we share the whole house. My house is going to stay my house, I have a roommate that I never talk about that is going to keep the house, just in case. My dad and I own it so it isn't going anywhere. It will be a little while before I move totally into the house with Ryan. Ryan set me loose with a credit card to decorate his house the way that I want it so that it becomes OUR house. He has 2 rooms decorated in that whole huge house. Actually not decorated, more like furnished to live in. The bedroom and the family room. He has a bed, dresser, and tv in the bedroom, and a couch, recliner, big screen tv and killer sound system in the family room. that is it. The house is totally empty otherwise.
So there ya have it. |