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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures  I cant even begin to answer everyone.
BUT I wanted to write you.
There are good men out there.
I was married to one for 22 years.
A wonderful father to our 3 kids,who treated me with respect always
We are still good friends. He turned 40 and went thru a midlife crisis.
Sad but it does happen
But there are good men (((hugs))) |
Oh, thanks for taking time to address me. I do pray there are good men out there. But I already married one horrid one and put up with physical, mental, emotional & financial abuse. I stayed too long because I didn't believe in divorce. I just haven't ever found another one to trust, but I pray God has a good one left for me.
And you were talking about how you were abused, add to that list financial abuse -- it is hard sometimes for someone to know what that means when you say that -- although I think anyone who has read your thread sees what that means in your case.
You never hear it talked about -- but I coined the word when I was going thru it years ago. The worst part for me, we shared a child & this is one of the things he could continue to do to me & to her after the divorce. She's now 18 & in her 1st yr of college & he is doing it to her now
-- Financial abuse is when they use money to control the situation, manipulate you, spend your money, gamble it or put you in debt