I agree find another attorney I wish I had more advice for you but I am a real estate paralegal in NC not a family law attorney in Ohio which is who could give you the expert advice you need, I'm sorry
I searched your state statutes for over an hour and your situation is over my head.. I couldnt find anything as of yet about being responsible for medical expenses for a spouse but I can offer you support please pm me if there is anything you want to talk about or if things become unbearable ((((((Hugs)))))) I will continue to search for more info
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