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Originally Posted by katelin  Debbi, as far as I know you stop being liable for his expenses when you "separate". That is determined by your state of mind. If you go to a lawyer it is proof that your state of mind was to end your marriage and to separate yourself from him. In CA. people still live together and are still considered "separated" because they sometimes don't have the resources for anyone to move out.
I have to leave to get my granddaughter, but I'll be back on in a little while and will catch up with this thread and see what else I can tell you. Hang in there. I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this.... |
Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr thats what I thought it SHOULD be..but my attorney told me no.
That we are both responsible for all bills until the day the divorce is final.
And he even took out a huge loan that I didnt even know about until almost a year into our marriage. Guess what thats 1/2 mine too...
I would have never said a word...filed and then laughed when he tried to blackmail me. I wish I lived in CA.
He even said if only my name was on the deed my house may be protected.
It has his name too. Thank ((((HUGS)))
Jan I want you to know as soon as he even starts now I always leave.
He hasnt touched me in quite a while now because he knows I'll just get in my car and sometimes leave for days .Its mostly verbal in the last several months. Hugs to you too!