I just saw this today too - and am sorry for you and especially HOW you found out. What he's doing now is turning it to you because of HIS guilt -
but try to think this thru - you all have a ten year history and if he's treated you well all this time, then think carefully ...if you feel you no longer love him and he you - then get out while you can and you're still young !
there's nothing worse than staying together for the wrong reasons but don't make a hasty decision ok ? Be strong and good luck !
Being alone is no fun. Believe me....Some people are good at it but I guess I'm not one of them - since my husband died I feel like I lost 3/4's of the person I was - I'm just always soooo tired you know ?
HUGS and hang in there !!! You'll know in your heart what you need to do. |