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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures  I wanted to post to you all..
I am just overwhelmed with the support here.
I have so many posts to respond to and PM that I cant read just yet.
I know that someway there has to be something I can do.
I am writing this on WordPad and copying and pasting it to the post so he dont catch me . He is still home and I cant afford another smashed computer
Usually he leaves a lot in the evenings when his friends or family come home to visit .. will read pms..and post more then,
((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))
I cant thank you all enough for the prayers and support |
I'm sorry for you - women don't deserve half the stuff men put us through BUT ....you're talking about smashed computers and 'other things' he's put you thru - it sounds like porn is the least of your problems - I really think you need to get out while you still can. This shattered your trust but it sounds like other things are going on that may be worse and I'd hate to see someone stay in a marriage that isn't going anywhere......
Porn that often is an addiction - chances are - he's also cheating/hookers etc - but I'm more concerned about the 'other things' you talked about. I don't know what they are but it doesn't sound good. Do you think he loves you ? IF HE DOES HE'll get help - but as I said - Looking at alot of porn is a form of addiction...he may not be able to stop.
Good luck - it sucks you've only been married 4 years - but it sounds like you deserve alot better.