Wow!
Debbi I'm just now reading this, hun if there is anything I can do for you, I'm here. I am praying you find the help you need. Not a good time for him to start this crap with Allie due.
I feel so bad for you. Hopefully Katelin can help you. Again, I'm here if you need to vent. Don't be embarrased either, we all need the help of our friends sometimes.