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Originally Posted by NanaDtreasures  Yes we all did...I love the April babies thread we have going.
Thank you sweetie
But the thing is he STILL has trouble...He has heart problems.
So no viagra for him.
Stents put in ...I've been here for him when I should have left long ago.
I can never trust him again...never
What a day....My eyes are going to be swollen shut in the morning  |
Debi. I don't know your whole situation and I understand how hurt you are. Believe me I do understand. I'm married 23 years and it was not always an easy road. I would just like to make one point and I'm not by any means making excuses for him but you mentioned that he had heart trouble and in one of your ealier posts you mentioned that it doesn't always work. Sometimes the medications taken can effect not only their performance but also their sex drive. It may not be that he's not attracted to you, it simply may be that he can't or does not have the desire due to the meds. Porn may be his way of trying to get aroused first rather then disappoint you if he can't? This may not be the case, but I thought I'd throw it out there. Elaine