Oh, I am sooo sorry that you are having to deal with this. I can understand why you are so upset. And we had such a good time on line today. Awww, I'm so sorry!
I agree that you need to talk to him, and maybe counseling if it is truly that big a part of his life.
The only other thing I can add is that men of a certain age sometimes have trouble doing the things they want to do (or used to do). I think they feel very inadequate and even if you say it doesn't matter, it matters to them. If that is what it is, I personally would feel better, and I'd go a different route with my discussion with him.
Whatever happens, we are all here for you. We'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best....
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