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					Originally Posted by Zanders' mom  It  sounds like you have a friend as well as a husband. My hubby is a Great guy, dad to our 2 kids & a good provider, one day I almost lost him. Through that time, I quickly learned to ignore the things I didn't like, his shortcomings and focus on the good things about him. We've been married 15 years.       Best to you. | 
 
  you are exactly right..and I do try very hard to see things this way. unfortunately, i can't convince my husband to look at it that way. but it's ok...one good thing about him being this way is that we do a lot of talking and usually can work out our differences easilly.