couldn't agree more! i think myspace is a little shady and much easier to hack into than facebook. The software programmers from Facebook have made it virtually impossible to compromise. I love Facebook and like everyone else has said it is very easy to adjust the security settings. on a WAY SIDE note...your daughter is far from college age...but these sites are so prevalent, schools are searching students on facebook and myspace and looking at their profile and pictures as part of admittance (this happened at many the grad schools i applied to, to see how serious of a student i was). and i must comment that you and yours daughter must have a very good relationship from how it sounds, congrats