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Originally Posted by matilda99  and trying to piece together the story. Sounds like a veteran breeder is leaving the forum because of someone who is refusing to take her advice? This is a very cryptic thread... |
I don't think it cryptic, you may be reading too much into it. I’m new to all of this, but I think it's kind of similar to how a social worker feels after awhile, they call it "burn out." You help and help and help, you may even lose sleep over someone else's lack of responsibility and in the end it seems like nobody give a hoot. For example, you might want to follow this thread. "Help"
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=123402 Think of how much time those breeders will spend posting. And so much of the time the poster will not even seem to have read the replies. After a while, you would feel like it sort of futile. I'm always amazed at the patience these breeders have shown others. Read some of the older threads, they show a great deal of restraint, but if they ever show any emotion they get hammered on it for being to hard on the newcomers.
We're asking the very people who love the breed the most to help people who seem to have no regard for the breed.