thanks all for the replies!!!
lol its ok for the he/she mix up! i knew whatcha meant. dont worry :-P
she doesnt seem big to me at all. i actually dont want her to stay as small as she is right now.Im constantly on her making sure she doesnt sneak off somewhere. id like her to in the 6lb range. i think ill be less scared with her playing with other dogs then.
thanks again!!