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  Sheila, I'm so sorry you're going thru all this.  It sounds like you have gotten some great advice above.  I'd fight it.  I'm not a professional, just a mom, but your son has been thru so much in such a short time.  Let them know you're fighting it.  Find out what the procedure is to do that.  And don't back down.  I don't know why, but sometimes husbands are too laid back about these things.  Mine is the same way.  
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