Great Post Suzy.
I think you should really try it. Your husband made the sacrafice for the last 4 yrs to get an education, support your family and to prepare to get the best job he can, why hold him back now? It was very scary moving away from my family the first time, but i made new friends and ended up loving it. Then I had to move back home (for mom's health), but Now I can't wait to move back out again! I was 4 hrs away and it really isn't too much.
I've already told the guy I'm sorta dating that I'm the one with the college degree, and we will move where
I need to in order to get the best paying job. But then I'm kinda bossy like that.