You have to listen to your heart and your head here. Money isn't everything, but living totally within your means, especially with young children, is wonderful and means you will be able to do so much more for them as well. 3 hours isn't that far away - it isn't cross country and is easily done for an overnight stay. Sometimes you have to go outside of your comfort zone. If you really hate it, you could make a change then - but you'll never know if you don't try. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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