[altigger74]

I moved 16 hours away from my family for my hubby. I miss my family like crazy but after 15 years together he is still the love of my life and I would go anywhere he went. Money doesn't buy happiness but it helps relieve some stresses so that you can concentrate on the happiness. You never know you may love where you go. In my honest opinion, give it a try if it doesn't work then you know but your hubby will also know that you gave it a try for him and your future.

Originally Posted by Tillys_mom

Yay!!! But I feel terrible! All I've done all school year is tell him I refuse to move more than an hour away from home. He has had a few interviews here close to come but none of them are going to offer anywhere near what this company just offered my husband. We would honestly live within our means if he made that much starting out, the benefits are top knotch, it's a great package. I feel like I'm dragging our family in the mud and holding us back. I've never ever pictured myself living anywhere but right here. I asked hubby if he wished I wasn't so stubborn and he said noooo. I told him to be honest. He then said maybe. All I keep thinking is money wont buy you happiness so I should push for staying around here, but my uncle gave up his dream to make my aunt happy and they look miserable. He hates his job, (she loves hers) and he acts like he wants something so much more. She refused to move about the same distance we would be a little over 3 hours. Ugh! I need your advice. I need an unbiased opinion. Hubbys family is gonna push for us to go, mine is gonna push for us to stay. What would you do?