My Dad's job required that he move around a lot. I went to I don't know how many elementary schools, and 3 highschools. My brother's had it even worse because I left home at 18 and the family was still having to move around..We aren't talking 3 hours from other family either - we're talking several hours away. My Mom never complained and neither did us kids. We all knew that Daddy's job was important, and he was such a good man, we trusted his judgement completely.
I say all of the above, just to say that I feel that the good experiences (making new friends, seeing new places), greatly outweighed the bad. If you are happy with your partner, home is where-ever you currently are living.
Hugs to you with your decision.
