 Am I being a brat??
So I have been totally feeling bratty because my sweetie wants to spend easter with his family this year. Our parents are about 2 hours apart. So we're going to my parents house friday night and going to Mass together saturday night, then we're having breakfast sunday and leaving to go to his parents for lunch. Ok so I know we're spending a weekend (really like a day) with my family, but I really wanted to have lunch with my family too. I won't get to see my cousins cause by the time we leave everyone is still at Church. But I feel like I can't say much because he's spent Thanksgivings, Christmases and other holidays just with my family. Am I being a brat? I've never missed holidays with my family EVER!!! Not even New Years. I love spending time with my family and I try to be fair which is why I haven't said anything, but it's bugging me. I want to spend Easter at home..lol..with MYYYY family. He's never complained about missing his family events and usually he ends up missing them or we end up going later to his families events, but HELLO THEY LIVE LIKE 10 MIN AWAY..Lol..Don't get me wrong I LOVE spending time with his family they are super nice and fun to be around. But I just feel bad for missing a holiday with my family. Seems like boys are more used to missing a few holidays here and there. We tried to think of alternatives but this was the best way. Because even if we stay for a quick lunch at my parents, by the time we get to his parents it's dinner time and everyone is gathering there for lunch after church. Am I being unfair? Should I just get over it and be fair like he does? Am I being unreasonable? |