I am so sorry. I saw this thread earlier today but couldn't bring myself to post.
To most of us, our words seem empty, and we feel so helpless. It does not seem fair. But, while you will anyway, try not to waste too much time on "why's" and "what if's". It just doesn't seem fair that you can still lose a baby no matter how responsible you are or how careful you are or how much you love them. You will seem Skoshi again. He is happily awaiting that day.
From our hearts to yours.
