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Originally Posted by orinskye i dont agree with people attacking members over pms, HOWEVER, i urge you all to 'read between the lines' and be skepticle. If someone doesnt post the offending pm or use the persons name then it is probably a BS accusation. I realize we all stick together here, but please remember that some people lie or stretch the truth.
I am not saying this to rile anyone up, this is only my opinion and it comes from experience. I was accused of sending pms such as these and the person DID NOT paste the pms (if they did then they would have been laughed out of the forum) and the person DID NOT use my name (Ive been here a while and my style of writing is familiar to most members that have been here a while as well).... Everyone however decided to "stick together" and pretty much bad mouthed the "offending pmer" ........
Everyone can write what they want here, and that includes FALSE accusations...
Also i would like to point out that the "goodbye" threads about these accusations have not been encouraged in the past, admin usually deletes them before they get much of a foothold.
Please look into all teh facts before you listen to someone saying they got nasty pms (and especially posting them on the board) most people will forward them to admin, those few that wish to "seek attention" will post them on the forum for public view (WITHOUT the proof or facts to back themselves up) |
You've read my mind. I agree 200% with everything you've said. If they don't forward the info to Admin, I think its a lie. and I am really sick of people threatening to leave. Sorry if this is rude, but LEAVE if you want. No one needs an announcement; its annoying when people just make those threads because they want to be told what a great member they are and then they end up staying. I swear, I think if you make a "goodbye" thread, your acct should be suspended so you can never come back. That would stop it from happening.
Also, I have no idea who is saying that they are getting rude PMs or whatever -- I haven't seen anyone post about that at all (maybe it got deleted before I saw
) but I urge whomever it is to forward it on.