Thank you all for you kind thoughts. She is sleeping on my lap right now and I can feel every bone in her body. She doesn't seem to be in any pain, but is just not Jesse anymore. She has always been alpha in the house, even over the yorkies, but lately, Munchie and Nougar are vying for her position
maybe this too is a sign. She also doesn't want to play with Coffee anymore, much to his disgust.
Our vet will be away for the whole of next week, I think I will watch her closely till he returns ( his Dad has cancer) and ask him (again) what he thinks and then, I guess I already know the answer.
Thank you for your prayers, I think we're going to need them.
Sheilagh