When we were first married my husband suggested moving in with my mom to save for a house. I asked him which he'd rather save money or his marriage. So I admire you for sticking it out with your in laws. It WILL all be worth it when you are finished school and can move out. Is your husband a student too? It will get better when school is over and you move on. And don't give up on training him! Like kids, they think if they wear you down you'll just do it yourself because it's easier. But if you stick with it and don't do his chores for him he'll get it eventually. I know it's hard when the garbage can is overflowing but he needs to learn that it's his job and if he doesn't do it it won't get done. (That's from hubby101...mine is pretty well trained, lol, but we've been married 20 years) |