In my previous life I was a Program Director for Medicaid Waiver group homes. (all the individuals were developmentally disabled). Now, I own my own doggie clothes company. I know exactly how you feel Shanatink. You and I need to have lunch. We have an internet site
www.poochiepants.com (shameless plug) and ebay store Posh Poochie Pants (shameless plug) that is functional but under construction.