I had kind of the same problem, but my Harley had been very aggressive towards my boyfriend. A member on here advised me that I needed to let him know that my boyfriend was the alpha. Even though it killed me to do it, I had to not let Harley in my bed anymore to sleep, even if my bf wasn't there. I will admit, it was hard and I felt REALLY bad. But I can say this, after only 4 times of my bf spending the night and my bf being the one to keep Harley on the ground, and tell him NO and take him for his walks, Harley is great now! He is back to sleeping in my bed and actually sleeps on my bf's side, totally away from me. He still gets all wound up and a bit aggressive when my boyfriend comes over, but at least he isn't attacking him any more! lol Here is the thread:
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...d.php?t=116292