they get the same amount of time from me! Last night we were laying on the bed, on top of the comforter and one boy was up on the bed and the other chose not to come up. When I went to get him a few mins later, he was chewing my shoe!!! He was not being ignored, he didnt want to come up! They get soooo much of my attn! Well I guess I missed a part here too.... I work full time and I go to school part time nights, that started this semester. So maybe its that in combination with the boyfriend too... I dunno!