[sophiedog]

We don't have much of a problem. Mister Bear just lays around, not very affectionate, rescue dog. Cosannah is hubby's first priority and Lida is mine. When we come in, if he doesn't say hi to Cosie first, she pouts. If I don't say hi to Lida first (Hi being picked up and kisses) she throws a royal fit! Our girls will usually go to whoever doesn't have someone, but on occassion Cosie will growl at Lida and Lida will bark back. I gently scold them in an affectionate way and do the 'baby talk thing', before long they are happy!
Don't let 'jealousy' issues bother you though or deter you, I find that the company they give each other more than makes up! It's great when they do play together, Cosie is older and doesn't really want to play much, but she is getting better and Lida just loves it!