I was 17 when I got pg, and 18 when I had my daughter..back then, my dad wanted me to put the baby up for adoption, but, I didn't..I did tell my parents, but, I would never hide that from them..anyway, I feel you do need to tell your Mom right away..if the guy is wanting you to have an abortion, I wouldn't have anything else to do with him, but, would go after him for child support..A baby can be a blessing, if you're able to take care of it and give it the love it needs..It is a lot of hard work..Now, as I look over at my 5 year old g-daughter, who just spilled chocolate ice cream and syrup all over her clean pjs, I think, if I would have given my daughter up, I wouldn't have this ornery little angel over here with me right now..!
