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Originally Posted by Charlies Angel

what would you do? Heres the 411: I work for my FIL at his optometry practice and I hate it and hate working with him! He's arrogant, rude, and I just want to smack him and run far far away. I drive over an hour each way just to work for him...he calls me before my work day even starts and even after it ends! I'm tired of being followed by my work constantly. I currently bill isnurance, handle the books, his personal finances, accounts recievable and payable, and he wants to give me another job to do the books for his other company. I'm drained emotionally and spirtually and I feel he has crushed me. Every time I say, "I don't like working for you, and doing your stuff." He says, "You'll never find better, you'll never make what you make now anywhere else." I can't explain how bad I hate that I married into this business, my husband even wants out and doesn't even want to work for him either. I'm just stressed and wondering if this is what God wants me to be doing or if theres something else out there for me. I dropped out of college after my 2nd year so I did not finish my degree and I see where my FIL gets off saying what he does. At this point I'd rather live on the streets and starve. If you were me would you stick it out, after all it's my "livelyhood" or say the hell with it and move far far away?

Honestly yeah you didn't finish your degree but you have hands on experience. I would seriously look for a job elsewhere. Shop around you might just find your current salary and then some. Doesn't hurt. I dont' think I could manage that for a long time.