[Mere_de_Jambo]

I am in the same boat as you. After asking a lot of questions, I decided a girl would probably work out better for my boy. My boy is not aggressive but he has some dominance issues. He knows I am number one but he definitely feels he is number 2. Since he isn't a submissive personality, many people advised me to get a girl vs. another boy. It seems that with some, it really doesn't matter. People have told me that the sooner the better but my boy is pretty spoiled so I am crossing my fingers time will work it all out. I just have to find a little girl. I have also asked about the work involved. Yes, it will be a little more work but at the same time it won't be. This is what I am told. If our kids are happier, it's worth it!