Thanks so much for all the stories and advice

I'm really going to search my heart for the answer.
I do want Abby to bond to me and I did think of that....If I got the two together, that they would bond with each other more than us. Originally, my plan was to adopt a rescue for the second fur baby, as that's what we've always done in the past. My little Peanut was a rescue and he was absolutely a dream! I still miss him so much

Anyway, I'm going to leave it in God's hands. I'll pray about it and if it's meant to be, it will happen.
Once again, I do so appreciate all the kindness and what you've shared with me. I will keep you posted on what I/We decide.

Tammy