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Originally Posted by Cathi  I recieve an email yesterday Sal brother Sherlock had cancer and died from a blood clot to the brain. |
oh, I'm so sorry for both of you. I know you are both grieving.
I have been through this too many time with breeding pairs. The last one was the loss of my male Siamese over a year ago. My female had such a hard time, he was here when she got her & they were together for 15 yrs. To make matters worse she was really attached to my daughter & my dd went off to college. So my female had a tough yr. I really thought about getting another cat for her, and even looked at some. But I decided the time wasn't right for me & have just spent extra time loving her. This fall she was a mess, but now she is doing better
They grieve too and they have to work their way through the process. It is so hard. Don't push him too soon to accept someone new if it doesn't feel right.